1. We are old enough and wise enough to know that sex really does start in the brain. But sometimes we may want to have sex and our bodies don't respond.

Over the years, our bodies have changed, and no doubt it hasn’t been for the better unless you're aging in reverse.  But some things don’t change. Communication is still key in your relationship, and for great sex. So, talk about what is pleasurable for you and ask your partner what they like.

In general, for men the arousal time is not nearly as fast as it used to be, and it doesn’t happen as frequently. As men age, especially after forty, erections become less spontaneous and less firm. A firm erection helps a woman feel the penis on her clitoris. The consistent rubbing brings an orgasm for her. You can also do this manually. When a woman climaxes, her vagina tightens and that can give her partner a more pleasurable experience. There are pharmaceuticals that can help men get firm, like viagra or cialis. So far, nothing for women so it essential that the man does whatever he can to help her climax.

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THIS IS very important. The size, rigidity and placement of the man's penis is also essential. Remember, most women need to feel the constant stimulation intercourse can offer just like a man so the penis actually needs to rub against the clitoris as he moves. So, size and placement actually does help a woman enjoy coitis. Survey after survey shows that women really do want a man who is larger and firmer for those very reasons. Fortunately, there are solutions that work.