Womens' interest is as distinct as a fingerprint. Some of us are career oriented, while others are dedicated
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WOMEN YOUNGER MEN and Why it Works Today Cougars,
stand up and be counted. You are on the rise and leading the way to a new and growing dynamic.
Which begs the question...Who are the younger men that want older women? What makes them so attractive
to these tadpoles? A few reasons are... younger men feel mature
women are more sensual, know a man’s body better, want and know how to please them in a way that... Read More ` . Are Women Over 50 Sexy ? ` When I started seeing those little laugh lines and crows feet around my eyes in my forties, I thought
"No big deal. Just a few lines." Men were still turning to look at me "that way" and I was determined
not to be one of those women who ran to a plastic surgeon to help my ego with a new fresh, albeit stretched beyond normal
limits, face. No, not me. I wasn't going to let those reminders of how my youth was fading determine my state of mind
or how I felt about myself.
Then, I started to gain a few (ok more than a few) pounds after 50...and with
additional financial stress came even more pounds. One summer my sister and I went shopping for new bathing suits.
...I went home with an exercise bike instead. I'd taken my size 8 body all the way up to a size 12 in
just a few years, then an ample size 14. Even at 5'7" you can't make a size 14 look like you wear a
size 10.
So I stopped shopping at Nordstroms and started shopping at much less expensive stores since
everyone could plainly see I wore a size 14 anyway and men had now started looking through me, not at me. Besides,
I was saving hundreds of dollars on my wardrobe. Practicality was becoming more and more important as I started to age. At
least that was what I told myself.
Then, when I was somewhere in my mid 50's, my husband made a comment one
day. We were shopping at a big box store and he spotted a woman who was overweight and probably in
her late 40's to early 50's. "She shouldn't be wearing shorts and a top like that. It looks terrible," he said, forehead
pinched. I cringed (knowing I was overweight too) but I agreed with him. I mean face it, loose skin, plump
arms and baggy knees are not attractive in today's skinny bitch tight ass world.
The following morning,
I sucked in a breath of resignation, gathered up all of my shorts, mini skirts and capped sleeve tops, placed
them in a black garbage bag (very appropriate for the occasion) and with great solemnity dropped
them off at the thrift shop.
But it begged the question. Why should only young, tight skinned slender
women wear shorts? If older women shouldn't wear shorts because men don't think we look attractive in
them, young women shouldnl't wear them because they look like an advertising billboard for sex. Is
that what it's all about? Sex? You can only wear short skirts, shorts, tight pants, spaghetti straps and form-fitting dresses
if you are young and attractive to men? Should we, after our child-bearing years, change our wardrobe from sexy to drab
now that we don't fit the "sex kitten" stereotype anymore? I
have to say, if the only women who should wear shorts and tight clothes are women who are advertising
sex, frankly that disturbs me. And on sooo many levels. These are real issues for women's interests no matter what our age because sooner or later
this will affect all of us. Are we going to slink off in a corner once our bodies start to age? Or will we choose to
change the perception of attractive to include mature women who have maybe gained some weight and whose arms flap in the wind
as we wave good-bye?
I say go ahead and wear shorts, bathing suits, tight pants and spaghetti strap dresses
if we want to wear them. We probably aren't trying to sell anything. We're just freakin' hot. But
what if we do still want to feel sexy in those tight pants, above the knee dresses and spaghetti strap summer
dresses? Is that a crime? . As for me, I still won't be putting
on that cool pair of shorts because frankly I just don't look good in them anymore. I'm too self-conscious
to prance around in them, flacid thighs clapping against each other with every step, even though secretly I'd love
to when it's hot outside. No matter the reason, the time isn't right yet for me. Perhaps I'll don a pair when I'm seventy
and don't give a rat's behind about what any man thinks. Or woman for that matter.
My parents had a friend who was a lot more than ten pounds overweight when I was growing up who always
left her house coiffed, and dressed to the nines and guess what...she looked fabulous! Is that the key? As we age, and
our bodies change should we make modifications on our clothing? A filmy cover over spaghetti strap tops, shorts that
are just a little longer with a flattering cut? Or am I missing the point here? I see overweight young women every day in
shorts, skin-tight tops and spaghetti strap dresses. They don't seem to have a hang-up about it. Why should we? By
the way, my husband is over 60 now and he had on a pair of shorts last weekend. He looked good...for his age. But
I think someone needs to tell him old men don't look good in shorts either. . HOME DECOR. . It's no secret,
most WOMEN Want To NEST. It's in our nature. Our home is a manifestation of our personality, priorities,sensibility,
and even sexuality. What style fits your personality? How do you determine which style is best for you? How do you even know
what "style" to start with? Here are a few descriptions that can help determine your style. Thinking English Country Décor? Then you will need to think, patterns and color.
The hues typically used in English Country are pulled from nature. Yellow and pink roses from an English garden, blue
from a summer sky and from the country rolling hill greens are common colors. The color palette usually includes three to
four colors that make the room feel inviting, cozy. These colors can be vibrant or muted, like dusty rose. Patterns are varied,
but most often include floral. Although English country kitchens frequently boast white cabinets, color is usually
added in the countertops and accessories. Fabrics Chintz, floral patterns and damasks are common
choices that are often blended and mixed together even in the same room. From upholstered sofas to table skirts fabrics are
varied. Ruffled pillows and lace window treatments soften the feel of the rooms. Patterned wallpaper and area rugs
usually find themselves in traditional English country décor. The style can appear busy, but should not be overwhelming.
Large prints will be paired with smaller prints, such as gingham, with similar color palettes. Men may find the English
country style a bit feminine for their taste, but with moderation they will be a willing partner when they feel the coziness
and inviting warmth of the décor. . A JOKE MOMS UNDERSTAND The Cup of Tea... One day my mother was out,
and my dad was in charge of me. I was maybe 2 1/2 years
old. Someone had given me a little 'tea set' as a gift, and it was one of my favorite toys. Daddy was in the living room engrossed in the evening news when I brought Daddy a little cup of 'tea', which was
just water. After several cups of tea and lots of praise for such yummy tea, my Mom came home. My Dad made her wait in the living room to watch me bring him a cup of tea, because it was 'just the cutest thing!'
My Mom waited, and sure enough, here I came down the hall with a cup of tea for Daddy; and she watched him drink it up. Then she said, (as only a mother would know), "'Did it ever occur to
you that the only place she can reach to get water is the toilet?" . . EMPTY NESTERS-DON'T GET BORED, GET A HOBBY! Most women I know in their 40's, 50's and even 60's have worked
to help support the family at least some time during their adult lives.  Many were able to stay home and raise their children and still bring in some income babysitting, selling cosmetics or doing
network marketing. Whether we worked outside the home or we were professional home makers, our free time was limited.
Not anymore. Once the kids are grown and out of the house we have two choices. We can languish away, wishing for the time
when we felt fulfilled as mothers or business tycoons or we can choose not to feel useless and bored. Those are the choices. So what do we do now that those hours are available to us again?
What hobbies and interests call to you?
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WOMEN IN THE 50’S by Chris Cross In
the Fifties, women’s interests and roles seemed to be reverting back to the “wifely duties” of the pre-war circa
1940's era. Before the advent of brash and crass television moms like Rosanne, these women and their icons adapted a 'dress
for success' attitude in their domain, the home. Bridge parties, golf, tennis, the PTA and neighborhood cocktail parties were
their way to show off their husband's success, along with their own talents and achievements in the home. Fashion was also
dictated by the new role women now adopted. You can't talk about Women's Interest without including GRANDPARENTING.
More and more adults with grandchildren are chosing, or forced to have long-distance relationships. As our society
becomes more transient ...PLEASE CLICK TO Read More . WHAT
CAN YOUR HAIR CAN TELL YOU ABOUT YOUR HEALTH? AND DO BLONDES REALLY HAVE MORE FUN?... ... . Rape Against Women...Knowing the rapist trick could
save your life. Please read this article yourself and pass it on to every woman you know because it should be on every
women's interest list. Click Here . . . .
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WOMEN'S INTEREST IN THE
INSPIRATIONAL There seems to be a strong connection
between our body and our mind, or spirit. Reports have shown for many years that people who attend a religious service regularly are healthier than most who don't. INSPIRATIONAL
ARTICLES...CLICK TO READ MORE .
.. Most of us love animals. It's even
been proven scientifically that people are happier and more well-adjusted when they have a pet, especially a dog
or cat. So, what are the MOST POPULAR DOG BREEDS FOR 2009 CLICK HERE . . . . Women
Over 50 Who Work...read more (to come) . HOME BUSINESS FOR WOMEN that really works...THIS IS HUGE... ONLY
$5 MAKES YOU $3855 A MONTH WITH A FULL MATRIX. NO RECRUITING NECESSARY TO BE PAID ON ALL LEVELS CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION . . Finding
Happiness after the kids are gone is...read more (to come) . STAY IN THE GAME: We know that women's interests include in
keeping their minds alert can include games. Like Sudoku? It's said that this game is a great way to improve brain skills
as we age, in a fun and challenging way. Since Women's interest in staying interesting and sharp is always important
you might want to check out this stimulating game of numbers. Never played but would like to start? Click the
link below and play...then click the back button and return here.
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. This could save your life
or the life of someone you know and love! FEMALE HEART ATTACKS (Myocardial infarction) Women rarely have the same dramatic symptoms that men have when
experiencing heart attack .... you know, the sudden stabbing pain in the chest, the cold sweat, grabbing the chest & dropping
to the floor that we see in the movies. Here is the story of one woman's experience with a heart attack.
'I had
a heart attack at about 10 :30 PM with NO prior exertion, NO prior emotional trauma that one would suspect might've brought
it on. I was sitting all snugly & warm on a cold evening, with my purring cat in my lap, reading an interesting story
my friend had sent me, and actually thinking, 'A-A-h, this is the life, all cozy and warm in my soft, cushy Lazy Boy with
my feet propped up..
A moment later, I felt that awful sensation of indigestion, when you've been in a hurry and
grabbed a bite of sandwich and washed it down with a dash of water, and that hurried bite seems to feel like you've swallowed
a golf ball going down the esophagus in slow motion and it is most uncomfortable. You realize you shouldn't have gulped it
down so fast and needed to chew it more thoroughly and this time drink a glass of water to hasten its progress down to the
stomach. This was my initial sensation---the only trouble was that I hadn't taken a bite of anything since about 5:00 p.m.
After it seemed to subside, the next sensation was like little squeezing motions that seemed to be racing up my SPINE
(hind-sight, it was probably my aorta spasming), gaining speed as they continued racing up and under my sternum (breast bone,
where one presses rhythmically when administering CPR).
This fascinating process continued on into my throat and
branched out into both jaws..... 'AHA!! NOW I stopped puzzling about what was happening -- we all have read and/or heard about
pain in the jaws being one of the signals of an MI happening, haven't we? I said aloud to myself and the cat, Dear God, I
think I'm having a heart attack!
I lowered the footrest dumping the cat from my lap, started to take a step and
fell on the floor instead. I thought to myself, If this is a heart attack, I shouldn't be walking into the next room where
the phone is or anywhere else .. but, on the other hand, if I don't, nobody will know that I need help, and if I wait any
longer I may not be able to get up in moment.
I pulled myself up with the arms of the chair, walked slowly into
the next room and dialed the Paramedics .. I told her I thought I was having a heart attack due to the pressure building under
the sternum and radiating into my jaws. I didn't feel hysterical or afraid, just stating the facts. She said she was sending
the Paramedics over immediately, asked if the front door was near to me, and if so, to unbolt the door and then lie down on
the floor where they could see me when they came in.
I unlocked the door and then laid down on the floor as instructed
and lost consciousness, as I don't remember the medics coming in, their examination, lifting me onto a gurney or getting me
into their ambulance, or hearing the call they made to St. Jude ER on the way, but I did briefly awaken when we arrived and
saw that the Cardiologist was already there in his surgical blues and cap, helping the medics pull my stretcher out of the
ambulance. He was bending over me asking questions (probably something like 'Have you taken any medications?') but I couldn't
make my mind interpret what he was saying, or form an answer, and nodded off again, not waking up until the Cardiologist and
partner had already threaded the teeny angiogram balloon up my femoral artery into the aorta and into my heart where they
installed 2 side by side stents to hold open my right coronary artery.
'I know it sounds like all my thinking and actions at home must have taken at least 20-30 minutes before calling
the Paramedics, but actually it took perhaps 4-5 minutes before the call, and both the fire station and St. Jude are only
minutes away from my home, and my Cardiologist was already told to go to the OR in his scrubs and get going on restarting
my heart (which had stopped somewhere between my arrival and the procedure) and installing the stents.
'Why have
I written all of this to you with so much detail? Because I want all of you who are so important in my life to know what I
learned first hand.'
1. Be aware that something very different is happening in your body not the usual men's symptoms
but inexplicable things happening (until my sternum and jaws got into the act). It is said that many more women than men die
of their first (and last) MI because they didn't know they were having one and commonly mistake it as indigestion, take some
Maalox or other anti-heartburn preparation and go to bed, hoping they'll feel better in the morning when they wake up .......
which doesn't happen. My female friends, your symptoms might not be exactly like mine, so I advise you to call the Paramedics
if ANYTHING is unpleasantly happening that you've not felt before. It is better to have a 'false alarm' visitation than to
risk your life guessing what it might be!
2.. Note that I said 'Call the Paramedics.' And if you can take an asprin..
Ladies, TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE! Do NOT try to drive yourself to the ER - you are a hazard to others on the road. Do NOT have
your panicked husband who will be speeding and looking anxiously at what's happening with you instead of the road.
Do NOT call your doctor -- he doesn't know where you live and if it's at night you won't reach him anyway, and if it's daytime,
his assistants (or answering service) will tell you to call the Paramedics. He doesn't carry the equipment in his car that
you need to be saved! The Paramedics do, principally OXYGEN that you need ASAP. Your Dr. will be notified later.
3. Don't assume it couldn't be a heart attack because you have a normal cholesterol count. Research has discovered that
a cholesterol elevated reading is rarely the cause of an MI (unless it's unbelievably high and/or accompanied by high blood
pressure). MIs are usually caused by long-term stress and inflammation in the body, which dumps all sorts of deadly hormones
into your system to sludge things up in there Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware.
The more we know, the better chance we could survive.
A cardiologist says if everyone who gets this mail sends
it to 10 people, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life.
**Please be a true friend and send a link to
this page to all your friends (male & female) you care about!**
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